Helping Children Deal with Death

Children often have trouble coping with the loss of a lovedone.  Here are some tips to help them dealwith the grieving process:

• First, have an honest discussion when breaking the news to achild.  Let the child react however theymay need to and let them know you’re available.
• Avoid euphemisms when describing death so the child is notconfused about what happened to their loved one.
• Keep an eye on the child to check if their grieving isbecoming too severe.
• If the child is still grieving six months after the death,consider a professional mental health counselor.
• Don’t shy away from talking about the death; it is importantthe child understands that death is a part of life.
• Surround your child with support, whether it’s through otherfamily members, school counselors, teachers, or support groups.

See Helping Your Kids Deal with the Death of aFamily Member, Backup Care, September 2013.