Friend’s compassion—even in death—inspired my own ‘David’s Will’

David Breaux, known as the “Compassion Guy” in Davis, California, for his dedication to spreading compassion. After his tragic murder, his wish to forgive his killer inspired the author, Tom Williams, to write a “David’s Will” outlining his own wishes if killed. This will emphasizes forgiveness, restorative justice, and ending cycles of violence.

Williams believes a “David’s Will” can prevent family conflict over justice and reduce calls for revenge. By making these wishes clear, individuals can contribute to breaking cycles of violence.

The author also reflects on how violence affected him personally, including the murder of another friend in a mass shooting. Creating his will became a way to honor his losses and foster peace. Williams encourages others to consider making similar commitments to compassion.

For more information see Tom Williams “Friend’s compassion—even in death—inspired my own ‘David’s Will’” ABA Journal, October 2, 2024.